Before you book

Talk to somebody who lives there

Guidebooks are written for everybody, so they are written for nobody in particular. Ten minutes with a person who lives in the place you are going will tell you more than ten pages of reviews - especially about what to skip.

What somebody who lives there tells you

What to skip

Every city has one attraction that locals would never send a friend to. No ranking or review site will tell you which, because it is always the busiest one.

What it actually costs

Not the average - the normal day. What a coffee, a train ride and a decent dinner cost for somebody living on a local salary rather than a tourist budget.

When not to come

Weather is the least of it. School holidays, festival weeks and the month when everything shuts are the things that quietly ruin a trip.

What to ask

These are the prompts written for exactly this. Start with the first one; it usually carries the rest of the conversation on its own.

  • What should a first-time visitor skip in your city, even though it is famous?
  • What is the one neighbourhood you would tell a friend to stay in, and why?
  • How much should a visitor expect to spend on a normal day where you live?
  • What is the food that locals eat that never appears on restaurant menus?
  • What is genuinely rude where you live, in a way a visitor would not guess?
  • Which month should somebody visit, and which month should they definitely avoid?
  • How do people get around day to day, and what should a visitor not bother learning?
  • What is a place near you that only locals know about?

Part of the full conversation starter library.

How to reach somebody there

1

Create a free account

No payment and no booking involved. This is a conversation, not a travel agency.

2

Open a voice or video room

Rooms hold up to 20 people, so you can listen first and join in when you have something to ask. Typing works too if you would rather not speak yet.

3

Ask where people are, then ask the first question

SpeakMotive is not a country-by-country directory, so you meet people through conversation rather than a filter. In practice the destination comes up within the first minute, and there is almost always somebody who has been there.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I talk to someone who lives in the place I am visiting?

Create a free account and open a voice or video room. Where people are from comes up almost immediately, and if it does not, ask - it is the least awkward question in travel conversation. SpeakMotive is not a country-by-country directory, so the route is conversation rather than a search filter.

Is this better than reading reviews?

It answers different questions. Reviews tell you whether a place was good last year for the people who happened to go there. A conversation answers what you should skip, what a normal day costs, and which month is genuinely the wrong one to visit.

What should I ask first?

Ask what a visitor should skip even though it is famous. It invites an opinion rather than a summary, and it gets a far more useful answer than asking what to see - because everybody already knows what the famous things are.

Can I do this before I book anything?

That is the point. Ask about the month, the neighbourhood and the budget before committing, rather than after - which is when most people discover that August was a mistake.

Ask before you book

The trip you are planning is somebody’s ordinary week. Ask them about it.

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